The very first words you speak to an girl who you’ve only met can determine if she will be dismissive of you as someone who is creepy and friend zone you or think about becoming your girlfriend.

Most males are completely clueless on how to approach an girl that they’ve had just have met. They will be talking about weather, or about themselves and frustrate with the girl to death or even flirt with her in a way that is inappropriate or, even more importantly pinktoyz the worst, they just don’t talk to her or let her go by.

Why…?

Pedestalizing

A lot of the time guys will be unable to communicate with the girl whom he’s had a brief encounter with because he believes that the girl is way too gorgeous even close to perfection, which means that it is his belief that he is not enough for her. He puts the girl in a position of esteem higher than himself. He then decides that he requires some specific approach to talk with this girl.

This mindset is most inaccurate, and it will always fail you.

Pedestalizing is common

Don’t believe that you are not alone. Everyone (no no matter what they say) and even a lot of dating expert and pop-up performers praised women before they first started.

If you come across a beautiful girl whom you admire, you will be anxious and nervous when you see her. This is normal, so don’t be a victim of it.

If you don’t have a plan to follow will lead in your unintentionally edging away girls who you are interested in.

What’s your plan of action? Below are five things you can implement to help remain the person you are in the moment you are speaking to someone girl whom you’ve only had the pleasure of meeting… but not being a mess.

5 things to say to a girl you just met

1. Excuse yourself for interrupting her

When you are in the vicinity of someone girl be sure to keep in the mind that you are disrupting what the girl is doing. It is possible that she may try to focus on what she is doing in front of her, or is already running late traveling to somewhere. So, she is not need to be a good host. So, the most important suggestion to make to the girl is to say that you are sorry from bothering her.

Excuse me, but I just had to know…

I don’t mean to take up time, but can I say something real quick?

When you confess that you are aware you are interfering with her daily routine and she is annoyed, she will appreciate the respect you show her and cannot not help but admire you in return. You is most likely to allow the time no regardless of how busy she is.

I’m looking for you. I don’t like wanting things. And I do not like admitting I need these things. – The Coldest Girl in Cold Town by Holly Black

2. Introduce yourself

It is shocking the number of times men fail to make a formal introduction. The idea of launching into what you’ve thought of saying to the girl before introducing yourself is an assumption. Making yourself known shows your confidence and will give your girl an impression of confidence. of who you are.

Hi, I’m Randy. I like your coat, the color is really stunning

You, I have spent my life waiting for you. – Wicked Lovely by Melissa Marr

3. Open up about yourself and common interests.

The majority of people are attracted by people who whom they believe are like them. A different reason you should pay attention to the details that a girl provides about her is to establish a bond to her. While she is discussing her own life, are you picking anything like you? Make sure you establish a connection before talking about yourself and talk about your own experience in the future.

For the first time at first, she may not even be keen in getting to know you better. However, by creating a rapport with her, she will be paying more close attention to the things you say as she will become attracted by your personality.

Wow, you love writing? What a coincidence! I have a freelance writing business.

Really? And thought it was weird that I would rather snack on celery sticks? So you are also not into snacks?

I am in love with you, and I am not in the business of denying myself the simple pleasures of saying true things! – The Fault in Our Stars by John Green

4. Compliment her

Ladies love receiving compliments, but it is important to be truthful to her. If, for instance, you are a fan of her then there is no excuse why you should not inform her. Actually, if you do not then she will become confused about what you are in such a way in her.

Comments can be difficult for men. Here’s a short guide to the way girls perceive compliments (from my own experience)

People want to be praised for something they’ve done or thought about, picked, etc. Therefore, you’ll need understanding. When you talk to her, take note of what makes it stand out and the reason.

If you’ve found something, toss out the line (like an fishing line) and wait to see whether she takes it. If not, you can keep continuing with another method. It’s not easy to tell the truth if there is any historical background to the issue, or her current position on it, and therefore don’t push the issue.

Some of the compliments that you can give a girl include:

You know, I really like how honest and open you are.

I like that you are different.

1. Meeting you was the highlight of my day.
2. I love the way you smell (be careful with this one)
3. I have learned so much from you today
4. Wow! You are really good at what you do!
5. You have such a positive charisma
6. So to reiterate, if the girl says something that you like, does something that you think is
7. Interesting or exhibits a trait you love, simply tell her.
8. You made me feel alive again – The Iron King by Julie Kagawa

5. Appreciate her company

This was the first time you’ve met the girl So you’re trying to keep things simple. Don’t take up the time she spends with you. Be grateful for her company and make it clear the things you truly loved by having her around.

Also, ask for her number or ask her out. (Remember to call, not text)

I choose you over everyone. – Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell

The next step

If you are planning an date to a girl it is important to make sure you are not in her “friend zone. When she begins getting to know you better be sure to tell her that you are not just going to consider her an acquaintance, but are in in dating your friend.

Don’t play games and games with the girl. There are various kinds of relationship tips out available today that advise men to never send messages or call in a short period of time, or make an effort to impress some attention, offer the girl silence at least once in the past and be unclear regarding where your relationship is taking you.

In Summary…

Confidence around women that who you love is something you can be taught. Don’t worry about it, as you will just make it worse.

It can aid in remembering your motivation behind why you are looking for your girl in the beginning in the first place. You like her, and want to make her that unique woman in the world.